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5 Reasons Why You Will Never Travel Around the World

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What if I told you that you would never be able to travel around the world if you keep on doing what you do? I know this for a fact because if you were already traveling, you wouldn't be reading this right now.

You may argue that you are currently working your ass off, saving money, having a secure job, and then you will travel when everything is ready. I hate to burst your bubble, but if you continue to live like this, you will never succeed unless you change your beliefs.

Today, I'll tell you 5 reasons why you will never achieve your dreams unless you change them.

1. You focus on saving money now and so you can travel later

I have written about this extensively before. Tell me if this story sounds familiar.

You have recently graduated and are looking for a job. After a month of rejections, youโ€™ve finally got an offer to work in a junior position in a big organization. Even though this job isnโ€™t something you find interesting, you took it anyway out of fear of not having any jobs. Day after day, you continue to work hoping that one day you will be promoted to a senior position or a manager, earning more money, and finally pursuing your dream.

It would have been nice if this plan worked, but most of the time, it doesn't. I have been asking many people why they don't travel more often, and the most common excuse I heard was that they don't have enough money, even though their salaries have almost doubled since they started.

The fact is, as you earn more money, you are also spending more, creating unnecessary obligations like buying a car, a house, etc. Your focus has shifted from spending money on your long-term goal to spending it all on short-term rewards.

Solution: Change your priorities. Cars and houses can be bought at any time and age, and the benefit will still be the same. However, the traveling experience is something that is worth more than anything in the world, especially if you do it early in your life. You will learn to rely on yourself, and the faster you learn that, the better you will be able to cope with anything that comes your way. Traveling is the ultimate life lesson you won't get anywhere else, not even in schools or your jobs.

There is one answer to a question "Whatโ€™s it like to 'drop everything' and go explore the world?" that I really recommend you reading. Itโ€™s insightful and will prepare you for what you will go through if you drop everything today and go explore the world.

2. You believe traveling alone is dangerous and that you need some one to travel with.

If you wait for your friends to come along in your journey, you will wait for the rest of your life, I can guarantee you that. Everyone has their own different agenda, and you can't expect people to be at the same stage in life as you all the time. Some people I know rarely see the world because they believe they will not enjoy traveling alone, and yet they have never tried.

Solution: Sometimes, you just have to say โ€œFuck it, Iโ€™ll do this alone" and travel by yourself. Traveling alone is not that dangerous if you use your common sense. To give you an example, donโ€™t get drunk at a pub alone, try to avoid dark empty streets, and trust your gut. You are better safe than sorry. Planning a trip alone at first can be a little overwhelming, so try to keep your first trip as simple as possible. Try it, and you might enjoy traveling alone more than traveling with companions.

3. "Why would I go to India? It's dirty and smelly"

This applies to all countries that most people don't want to go to. Knowing nothing about a place doesn't mean that you should not visit it. I even encourage you to visit these places so that you can finally fill in the blank. I will be soloing India tomorrow, and people thought I was crazy. They believe that India is a scary and dirty place, and yet they have no experience to back their claims. If you judge a country by negative things people say, you will never go anywhere.

Solution: Use this as an opportunity to prove these people wrong. Forget all those negativities and be open-minded. Accept their norms and culture; don't deny it. You are traveling in a foreign land anyway. No one will judge you, so just go with the flow.

4. You'll do it someday

I can tell you right here, you will never do it, no matter what the reasons are. Whether you are waiting for a stable life, to get rich, or to quit your job, that day will never come. Life will find a way to screw up your plan, and you will always find excuses to put off travel indefinitely. It's like people waiting for the recession to end. It will never end. You will just have to find a way to cope with it to survive.

Solution: The thing is, if you really want to travel, you have to do it now. Create a commitment that you will not be able to back out of later. I did this when I decided to travel alone for the first time. I knew from my past experience that I would eventually back out, so I booked a $250 flight beforehand and all I have to do now is show up. It was the best decision I'd ever made, and now I'm on a traveling spree.

5. You don't want ruin you career

I've never heard or read anywhere that people have ruined their careers because of travel, nor do I see people regretting their decision. Your career will not be ruined. Most modern employers will understand how travel can help improve their employees. Some may even encourage it.

And if your employer doesn't encourage you to expand yourself, then you might be better off working for someone else who cares about your future more. Your experience traveling may even help you get an even better job when you are back home. Employers will always find these unique stories fascinating, and you can always use this as an advantage, especially if you apply for any position that requires leadership.

Solution: First, go on a small trip using a few days of your available leaves. When you are ready to go further and for a longer duration, ask your employer for leaves without pay for a few months. Most employers will have no problem approving this. That way, you will feel more comfortable pursuing your dream.

Do You really want to travel?

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results.

Albert Einstein once said, "So in order to travel, first you must be willing to change your beliefs to readjust your life so that it is heading where you want to go, not stay in the same place and expect it to change itself."

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Jojo Ruck

Hi Pete R. Oh my G-D. I love what you said in this post, enough to share it with one of my friends. I am working on inspiring the world to chase their dreams, and your blog just hit the nail on the head.
Good for you!!
Joanna


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I completely agree, especially the point of "Travelling Alone". I have waiting so long in order to travel with friends, it ends up they being stuck in their life with their own agenda. There a missed many opportunities on travelling. Seems I will have to go with "Fuck it, I will do it alone". Thanks for the post :)


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Hi Pete R. Oh my G-D. I love what you said in this post, enough to share it with one of my friends. I am working on inspiring the world to chase their dreams, and your blog just hit the nail on the head.
Good for you!!
Joanna

Thank you Joanna for the comments! I hope you will inspire many more people to come :)


Pete Rojwongsuriya's profile picutre
I completely agree, especially the point of "Travelling Alone". I have waiting so long in order to travel with friends, it ends up they being stuck in their life with their own agenda. There a missed many opportunities on travelling. Seems I will have to go with "Fuck it, I will do it alone". Thanks for the post :)

Thank you for reading my blog, Jennifer. :) Traveling alone is the best IMO. You can do whatever you want whenever and however you like! That's the definition of freedom :)


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Nontraveler

All of those things are perfectly legitimate and no one should judge someone else simply because they choose not to travel. People have different priorities. Besides, travel is a privilege and not everyone can afford it no matter what your priorities are. As for traveling alone, I've done it and it's no fun.Especially if you're single and everyone else is a couple.


Pete Rojwongsuriya's profile picutre
All of those things are perfectly legitimate and no one should judge someone else simply because they choose not to travel. People have different priorities. Besides, travel is a privilege and not everyone can afford it no matter what your priorities are. As for traveling alone, I've done it and it's no fun.Especially if you're single and everyone else is a couple.

Haha, yup. Solo traveling is definitely not for everyone. For me, I have no problem being by myself in foreign lands. In fact, I enjoy my time more when I am out and about where no one knows me, but that's just me so you are right. :) Thanks for the comments!


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